..I'll think about that tomorrow..

A little advice from Yours Truly :)

Just needed to share a few thoughts, since i never usually post until i have something to say. I realized today, that I truly love the guy I’m with right now. We have a great relationship. I’ve been through hell and back in past relationships, not to mention I practically felt like a part of me died when my ex and i didnt work out. But I have learned appreciation and respect are the core of any good relationship, or mine anyway. My boyfriend picked me up from rock bottom, picked up the broken pieces and worked patiently and gently through the pieces with a (huge ass) bottle of crazy glue to fix it. Although its not a problem anymore, i appreciate the time and effort he has put into this relationship. I respect him for who he is and who he wants to become. I appreciate his patience and kindness when there were times I truly didnt deserve it. I try to make an effort of telling him I love him atleast once a day, and I thank him, for everything, or even the smallest gesture. I show him i appreciate him by doing something small- whether its offer to run him over coffee when hes doin work late, or make dinner when i know hes busy…every now and then i even spring for the massage when hes had a stressful week.. I also do it, cause i know he’d do that for me. Because we care for one another and i think thats important. Also, another huge thing——PICK YOUR BATTLES! Stop fighting over every little thing. Think about it..i created being irrational, so believe me, i know what its like to fight for attention, for the hell of it, or because you have no other outlet. Ask yourself if its worth it. Ask yourself if youre not being rational. If you need it, give yourself that moment to catch yourself in silence before you just act. Believe me, Ive avoided plenty by learning this stupid tactic- it took a couple boyfriends, but i think i got it this time..

So what’s the point of this?? The point is, people these days dont take the time out to show one another they mean something to them. Taking someone for granted is probably the worst feeling (actually it is the worst feeling) you can ever feel. So, I’ll tell you ppl, you can tell me to fuck myself, but i think you should tell that person you love em, let em know there’s a reason why you have them so close to you and why they’re so significant in your life. It’ll most likely turn things around or make them better. Live today, enjoy the moment, and dont waste time over stupid things that wont affect the big picture.